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Originally published on Adipose Activist and cross-posted here with their permission. Credit: Adipose Activist. The more I talk to my friends, the more I realize that men have no idea how to talk to fat girls. Do you have more suggestions? Feel free to comment! Bad idea. Guess what?
You talking to a fat girl, showing interest, says all we need to know, without words! I hope not. Not someone who likes us because of our body, not someone who likes us in spite of our body. Just someone who likes us. All of us. You both love Lord of the Rings? It may seem silly to mention, but it actually is important. I get that question from time to time. Just talk to us. Trust me. That can be a real self-esteem killer for us, and it can make us gun shy. So we can tend to be a little leery when a guy professes interest.
This can be a tricky one to navigate. This might sound harsh, but you have no idea how many men expect some kind of reward for being attracted to fat girls.
But believe you me. We get worried if your friends are going to judge us or snigger. Take her out to dinner, to the movies, walk around town. Hold her hand, put your arm around her. There are lots of folks out there who hate fat people. The vitriol some people have for others based purely on body size can be quite frightening.
Understand that us ladies live in a culture where every magazine, every commercial, every ad is telling us that our bodies are wrong. Be sensitive to that. Not at first. Different girls are at different stages of comfort and acceptance of their bodies and frankly, that goes for all girls of all shapes and sizes! Understand that some things are a little tougher for us.
If she calls herself fat, let her. If she wants to call herself chunky, or curvy, or voluptuous, let her. Your mileage may vary on any of these points, of course. All girls are different, all girls want slightly different things. But overall it just comes down to being sensitive, perceptive, and attentive. Frankly, these are good values to have anyway! Used by hundreds of universities, non-profits, and businesses.
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